I usually feel like people are crossing lines when they ask me to do something for them, without paying me back in return. Yeah, I'm a cheapskate like that. Though I'm completely fine with doing something for another, I don't want to go out of my way just to help someone.
People usually cross the lines when they feel like a person is being nice to them. They think that they are important to that person. They think that they are more superior to that other person. That's why it irritates me the most when someone crosses the line.
I also can't tell where is the line. It is subjective and changes from time to time. But when someone crosses it, you just know.
So be careful and always think about the result of your actions.
And by the way, I saw that my friend is going to write about scholarships and all that in her blog. I admit it that I felt envy when seeing that but when I think about it, I don't really want to write about that. Sure, it'll make me look like I'm a reliable person if I can write about my experience and how I got where I am right now. But I realized that each person is different and how they perceive their success is also different.
And so, this is what I think is important in life. It's about what's in your heart and mind. But it kinda aggravates me when I think the right thing but don't have the courage to do it. Damn annoying.
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