I know that scoldings are normal and we kinda need that in our life but excessive scoldings is a little bit..
It's kind of a challenge for me to see the good in negative things, though it is possible. Sometimes, it's like searching for a needle in a haystack, is that what they call it? I'll confirm later.
In my opinion, when we scold someone, there must be a message that we want to convey because after all, scolding is also a way communication. I mean, why don't you just convey the message? ah, yes it's because humans are not perfect and they can feel frustrated by someone's incompetence so they proceed to scold someone that is in a lower position than him/her. yep. is that the conclusion i've come to? unfortunately yes. a little bit negative. yes, i know.
It's not like I've never scolded anyone before. I have. So how do I justify the action of scolding someone else? To teach them? Make them learn from stress? What can people learn from stress?
If it's little kids then yes it's necessary to scold them but a bunch of 20 years old? i dont think so.
