To think that you worked very hard to become the best version of yourself, only for you to get hung up on someone that you're not even sure of..You're not sure about their personality and their outlook on life. I think it's a waste. It's a waste of all your effort to get to this point.
Throw away that little belief or hope that stems from nowhere. I know, we sometimes have fantasies of our one-sided love being returned in the end. And that someone actually has been loving us all this time and we don't have to look so far just to be happy. That we jut need to wait for that someone to make a move, or in other words, for our fate to reach us.
I now realized how childish that thought is. And yet I have been hoping for it to happen for the longest time. I am stupid indeed, Thank God I realized it in time.
For a good life partner, you have to assess them objectively. Not just settle on someone you don't even like just because you think it's fate.
"I like this person though he is not objectively attractive. He's not even my type. This must be fate." No. Girl, no.
I don't know what your attraction towards him is based on but if he does not reach your standard then that's not the one. Trust me, okay?
Evaluate objectively and after the bond is made, then that is your fate.
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